Though those concerns are completely valid—and usually the response to them is yes—if you’re in a mostly great relationship, someone getting hangry or overly clingy or remote isn’t cause to comfort away. It’s simply a reminder you along with your partner are both annoyingly human being. To ignore or avoid this particular fact “is in essence in which to stay youth, nursing a fantasy and passing up on the character that is real of and of our lovers,” Green says.