Wow that seems awfully familiar. Ouch. I really hope you both are performing well now.
It never also joined my brain up to now once I ended up being divided, because We feared my ex would discover and somehow utilize it against me personally when it comes to finance/custody. Then again, 1)I’m paranoid in general, and 2)our divorce proceedings went really efficiently and had been finalized quickly. Don’t know what i’d do if it dragged down for a long time.
So far as dating somebody who’s separated, I did date a separated man and it didn’t work away; then again, I’m seeing another separated man now plus it seems to be exercising. Difference involving the two after we met, after I asked him “hey, don’t remember, when did you say your guys’ court date was? ” that’s how I found out there had never been a court date as I see it, is this: 1) guy #1 had originally lied to me saying he was divorced, and only admitted to being separated about six weeks.